Your so-well argumented, thoughtfull and balanced piece should have been tweeted to TPTB along with some others, if you are OK with it. One of the mods at House-Cuddy volunteered to do it. They need to hear why the fans are so dissatisfied with this episode, and not by hateful tweets, but by clearly stating what was wrong in this ep.
Surprisingly enough, fans from all ships and non-shippers all seem to agree that it was plainly wrong, in term of writing and, above all, with the various interviews we were given afterwards. It has much more to do with the characters shaking and the inconsistencies that seem to grow.
Reading from you is always a pleasure, and a comfort.